Today I'm going t write about my current situation with my friends. I am the middle woman, meaning I have two sets of friends who all used to hang together, but now they don't. My first year here I was rooming with my high school best friend, big mistake!! Let's just say that just becuase you spend 24 hours 7 days a week with someone doesn't mean you can live together. ( don't think too hard on that statement, it's really not that complicated) :-) Long story short, we just started talking again 2 weeks before school started. wow right? well in a general since, everyone on my floor last year were pretty close, especially they girls on my end of the hall. We all were best friends by the end of the first month of school, it was very rare that you saw one of us alone, if you weren't there when we met you would swear we had been friends all our lives.
Well as the year progess, me and my high school BFF started to get to the point where we couldn't stand to be togther at all, even when all of us were together in a group, you could still feel the tension between us, even our random associates noticed it when they would come to speak to "the gang". Finally we just stopped talking all together and she was sort of "kicked" out the group. (I had a large influence on that decision, and i'm acutally kinda proud of it too...lol) Needless to say, my roommate and I ended our first year of college with each other in complete and utter silence, we didn't even say good bye to each other, sad right?
So it's a whole new year and I'm of course still with my same group, and surprisingly talking to my old roommate again. The problem is that she is not talking to my other friends who all used to be her friends ( the weird thing is that she is the one that introduced everyone to each other, if it wasn't for her we probably wouldn't be friends at all). So I am the middle woman, when my group of friends are with me and she passes by without speaking to them I somehow feel guilty. the situation is starting to get to me becuase I am a very nice person and I do not like for people who were once so close to not even speak to each other. But oh well, I just gotta suck it up and move one with my life becuase their situation isn't really my problem.
HOpe I didnt bore you too much
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- Ladii V
- I am a very nice young lady, I'm quiet at first so most people take that as me being stuck up, but I'm not. I am a very determined young lady and thats about it.
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This is a really good blog that I know a lot of people can identify with.
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